What is the meaning of consensual sex?
Consensual sex is a personal matter and no one has
the right to interfere with personal needs.
For example, a woman wants to have sex with a man
and both parties agree, well, this is a personal need, and the right to
interfere in that is interference in personal matters.
Why is consensual sex important?
Consent for any sexual activity is the centerpiece
for preventing sexual coercion and unwanted sexual behavior. Therefore, consent
can and should be incorporated as an essential and fun part of sexual
communication. Likewise, it is a vital component of mutual pleasure and healthy
sexuality.
Do married women have the right to have sexual
contact with other men? Yes, because every person is responsible for their own
body and no one else has the right to interfere in their personal affairs and .
And it is a personal need and a personal desire,
and any woman who has a husband can have sexual relations with another person,
if it is consensual and respectful, because no one is responsible or owns
another person. Every person owns their own body and is responsible for their
own body.
We are human beings with a set of moral standards
and personal needs, and sexual relations have nothing to do with morality, but
rather a personal need, and it is the right of every human being to fulfill
their personal needs based on mutual respect and agreement.
Therefore, sexual issues are an individual need,
and the person chooses who to have sexual relations with based on agreement,
and if love is present, their pleasure will be greater.
But in backward and underdeveloped cultures, sexual
relations are linked to morality, which is immoral and inhumane.
And personal needs are a completely personal matter
and a person has the right to use it without any obstacles.
Therefore, men should understand that they do not
have the right to pressure women why they have had sexual relations with
another person because men do not have the right to ask women about this at
all. Because it is a completely private and personal matter and a need is a
personal matter and it concerns the person himself and not anyone else.
Two sexual relations are prohibited. One is forcing
women to have sexual relations. This is considered rape. Abuse of underage
girls. This is a criminal act and should have severe legal consequences.
How to do sex without fear of pain?
Lifestyle and home remedies
Change positions. If you have sharp pain during
thrusting, try different positions, such as being on top. ...
Communicate. Talk about what feels good and what
doesn't. ...
Don't rush. Longer foreplay can help stimulate your
natural lubrication. ...
Use lubricants.
Diagnosis
A medical evaluation for dyspareunia usually
consists of:
A thorough medical history. Your healthcare
professional might ask when your pain began, where it hurts, how it feels and if
it happens with every sexual partner and every sexual position. Your healthcare
professional also might ask about your sexual history, surgical history and
history of childbirth.
Don't let embarrassment stop you from answering
truthfully. These questions provide clues to the cause of your pain.
A pelvic exam. During a pelvic exam, your
healthcare professional can check for symptoms of skin irritation, infection or
anatomical problems. Your care professional also might try to locate your pain
by applying gentle pressure to your genitals and pelvic muscles.
A visual exam of your vagina also may be part of
the evaluation. For this exam, an instrument called a speculum is used to
separate the vaginal walls. Some people who have painful intercourse also have
pain during a pelvic exam. You can ask to stop the exam if it's too painful.
Other tests. If your healthcare professional
suspects certain causes of painful intercourse, you might have a pelvic
ultrasound.
More Information
Pelvic exam
Ultrasound
Treatment
Treatment options vary depending on the cause of
the pain.
Medications
If an infection or medical condition contributes to
your pain, treating the cause might resolve your problem. Changing medicines
that can cause lubrication problems also might eliminate your symptoms.
For many postmenopausal women, painful intercourse
is caused by too little lubrication resulting from low estrogen levels. Often,
low estrogen levels can be treated with topical estrogen applied directly to
the vagina.
The Food and Drug Administration approved the
medicine ospemifene (Osphena) to treat moderate to severe dyspareunia in women
who have problems with vaginal lubrication. Ospemifene acts like estrogen in
the vaginal lining.
Drawbacks are that the medicine might cause hot
flashes. It also carries a risk of stroke, blood clots and cancer of the lining
of the uterus, called the endometrium.
Another medicine to relieve painful intercourse is
prasterone (Intrarosa). It's a capsule you place inside the vagina daily.
Other treatments
Some therapies that don’t involve medicine also
might help with painful intercourse:
Desensitization therapy. For this therapy, you
learn vaginal relaxation exercises that can ease pain.
Counseling or sex therapy. If sex has been painful
for some time, you might have a negative emotional response to sexual stimulation
even after treatment. If you and your partner have avoided intimacy because of
painful intercourse, you also might need help improving communication with your
partner and restoring sexual intimacy. Talking to a counselor or sex therapist
may help resolve these issues.
Cognitive behavioral therapy also can be helpful in
changing negative thought patterns and behaviors.
Lifestyle and home remedies
To help with pain during sex, you and your partner
could try to:
Change positions. If you have sharp pain during
thrusting, try different positions, such as being on top. In this position, you
might be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you.
Communicate. Talk about what feels good and what
doesn't. If you need your partner to go slow, say so.
Don't rush. Longer foreplay can help stimulate your
natural lubrication. You might reduce pain by delaying penetration until you
feel fully aroused.
Use lubricants. A personal lubricant can make sex
more comfortable. Try different brands until you find one you like.
Coping and support
Until vaginal penetration becomes less painful, you
and your partner might find other ways to be intimate. Sensual massage, kissing
and mutual masturbation offer alternatives to intercourse that might be more comfortable,
more fulfilling and more fun than your regular routine.
Preparing for your appointment
Talking with your healthcare professional is the
first step in resolving painful intercourse. Your primary healthcare
professional might diagnose and treat the problem or refer you to a specialist.
What you can do
To get ready for the conversation with your
healthcare professional, make a list of:
Your sexual problems, including when they began and
how often and under what conditions they happen.
Your key medical information, including conditions
for which you're being treated.
All medicines, vitamins or other supplements you
take, including doses.
Questions to ask your healthcare professional.
Some questions to ask include:
What could be causing my problem?
What lifestyle changes can I make to improve my
situation?
What treatments are available?
What books or other reading materials can you
recommend? What websites do you recommend?
What to expect from your doctor
Your healthcare professional might ask you questions,
including:
How long have you had painful intercourse?
Where do you feel the pain?
Does the pain occur every time you have sex or only
in certain situations?
How is your relationship with your partner?
Are you able to discuss your sexual concerns with
your partner?
Do any nonsexual activities cause you pain?
How much distress do you feel about your sexual
concerns?
Do you have vaginal irritation, itching or burning?
Have you ever been diagnosed with a gynecological
condition or had gynecological surgery?
But if someone is forced to have sexual contact or
intercourse, this is considered rape and is a crime. And it has legal consequences. And the violator will
be prosecuted.
And sexual relationships should be respectful, and
in this regard, women should decide what kind of sexual movements they want to
have during their first sexual contact.
Both people must agree to sex — every single time —
for it to be consensual. Without consent, sexual activity (including oral sex,
genital touching, and vaginal or anal penetration) is sexual assault or rape.
Consent is easy as FRIES: Freely given.
Sexual Consent.
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