Sex in nature and its benefits.

 

#Sex in #nature and its #benefits.

According to my own experiences, it is the best and most enjoyable sex in nature. It is very pleasurable for both men and women. For example, massage the woman with massage oil, massage her whole body, especially her breasts, which is more enjoyable. After the #massage, the woman's desire is always #prioritized, always let the woman decide on this because the woman's #satisfaction gives both  more pleasure. Sex in nature is a hundred times more pleasurable than sex at home.

A safe place is important. In nature, always consider the place and location. For sex in nature, safety is important. Do not have sex in a place that is full of traffic. In a place where there is complete security, no crowds pass by, and in it, massage each other with complete security.

 Most men should start by massaging their partner. You can massage the woman's nipples and breasts for a long time. After the woman is completely satisfied, start massaging the penis until she says enough, then start sex.

 

Don't forget to list the penis until the moment the house itself says enough is enough, until it screams that it is reaching orgasm.

 

Is having sex in nature good?

Trading in your bedroom for the wilderness can take your sex life to a whole new level and make your relationship stronger than ever. Camping and hiking sex don't have to be all gross or uncomfortable—just pack smart, pick a prime destination, and have some fun with it.

The Ultimate Guide to Having Sex in the Outdoors

Is #camping_sexy?

We all know camping can serve as an escape from your everyday routine—think work, home, responsibilities. And that’s also what makes it a great time for some adventurous alone time. While many people settle for privacy behind actual closed doors, fresh air and incredible scenery make the right kind of setting for new adventures—including sex in the outdoors.

You might think that you aren’t at your sexiest while camping. Maybe you haven’t showered for a while, and your surroundings are less than hygienic.

But don’t let that hold you back if you’re both feeling into it—check in with your partner. Having great sex while camping is all about your attitude, whether it happens on the fly or you’re able to do a bit of advance planning for maximum comfort and easy cleanup. Either way, we’ve got the camping sex tips to help you out—let’s get to it.

Your camping sex packing list

These items are essentials for any romantic camping trip—just pack them in and out.

A loungewear set: Keep this set of clothes for campsite use only to avoid bringing smelly hiking clothes into bed.

Toothpaste: Fresh breath makes all the difference.

Wet wipes: You can never have enough! Use these to wash off the day’s sweat, sunscreen, and bug spray in advance, and use them after sex too.

Condoms: Protect nature, protect yourself. Bring lube too, if that’s your thing!

A camping towel: You’ll be happy to dry off after freshening up.

Flashlight: This is not to be used during the deed (spare your neighbors!), but will certainly help you navigate along the way.

A garbage bag: Keep this on hand for your used wet wipes and condoms.

How to make camping romantic

So maybe you want to set the mood a bit. Any camping trip can be a romantic getaway! Start by choosing an uncrowded destination with great scenery, and keep things fun. After all, foreplay begins long before your clothes come off—indoors or out.

Choose mind-clearing activities.

Completing a stellar hike together can give you both an extra endorphin rush, while stargazing back at camp can also bring you closer. No matter what, agree to leave your usual stressors at home. Give yourselves a break to rediscover the things you love about each other. And know nobody says no to a post-hike massage to work out the day’s kinks.

Plan your favorite camping meals.

We all know that the way to someone’s heart is through their stomach, so consider a camping menu of your collective favorites—nothing fancy required. And if you drink, try whipping up a camping cocktail to impress, or opt for the ever-easy beer and wine, perfect for car camping. Then, enjoy your feast by lantern or campfire. Even an LED lamp with some fabric thrown over the top will set the mood.

Tips for great outdoor sex

There’s nothing quite like making love under the stars—sneaking away from the trail into the trees, feeling the breeze against your skin, hearing the sounds of nature all around. Living this fantasy is easy (and safe) if you follow a few simple tips.

Find a hidden spot.

There’s no doubt about it: Nobody wants to see or hear what you’re getting up to (and you could be breaking the law if you’re in a public place!), so make sure you are away from shared spaces or busy trails.

This is easiest for backpackers and paddlers who can make camp far away from others, but it’s especially important in a designated campground—let’s all respect our fellow outdoor enthusiasts. Look for spots farthest from facilities and trails, ideally somewhere on higher ground so you’ll be able to spot anybody wandering over before they spot you.

Try these tips for the tent.

Making your tent into a little love nest is likely your simplest option. But tents are not the sturdiest structures, and we’re here to help you have sex in your tent without destroying it.

1.    If you’re within sight of others, make sure to turn off all of your flashlights and lanterns to avoid casting shadows.

And be aware that any nearby neighbors can likely hear everything—even a vibrator can sound loud at a quiet campground, and nobody wants to have to explain your shadow puppet show to their kids. Deflate your air mattress if you get the chance—the squeaking and subsequent laughing are a dead giveaway.

2.    Try to bring a relatively spacious tent, and declutter it by keeping most of your gear in the vestibule or under a tarp outside. This will open up more options for you by providing room to change positions.

3.    This isn’t the most spontaneous detail, but we highly recommend gathering everything you’ll need ahead of time to keep within reach. Don’t interrupt the action to go searching through your pack if you don’t have to.

4. If you can, consider investing in a double sleeping bag, as separate bags are pretty much the equivalent of separate beds. Double bags are even better in chilly climates to keep you warm during foreplay and snuggling.

Go beyond the tent—you may prefer hiking sex.

Sex in a tent is one thing, but if forgoing this shelter, who wants to take a roll in the hay when that hay is ground covered with rocks and sticks? Use a sleeping pad, foam pad, tarp, towel—anything relatively soft—to put at least a bit of distance between you two and the ground.

 This will help you avoid getting stabbed by branches or rocks, and stop sand and dirt from getting lodged in uncomfortable spots. Nothing to put on the ground? Try up against a tree or boulder (Just don’t say we told you it’d be comfy).

Leave it better.

Remember that you are in the wilderness, where you’ll want to avoid leaving out anything that could attract wildlife. Use a condom to avoid the mess, clean yourselves up with wet wipes, and most importantly, pack it all out. Take nothing but pleasure, leave nothing but bum prints!

Trading in your bedroom for the wilderness can take your sex life to a whole new level and make your relationship stronger than ever. Camping and hiking sex don’t have to be all gross or uncomfortable—just pack smart, pick a prime destination, and have some fun with it.

The art of licking pussy

First of all – you can’t give a woman an orgasm. If she doesn’t want to, or doesn’t dare, or doesn’t give in, then there will be no orgasm. Or possibly a small, limited one. The most important insight you must have, both as a receiver and a giver, is that if there is to be an orgasm at all, and especially if it is to be a thunderously strong and dizzying one, then the receiver must be ready to receive, fully, breathe, move, let go, give in.

The strength of the orgasm lies more with the receiver than with the giver – and technique is not the main tool. The art lies in the presence, responsiveness and devotion, of both parties.

Having said that, there is nothing as wonderful as helping a woman have a real orgasm, with the help of your tongue and lips. There is also nothing as pleasant for a woman as being licked to orgasm. Therefore, I will try to guide you through the most important aspects of this beautiful art.

Licking pussy is an art that requires enthusiasm. You have to like it for it to work. Otherwise, it is better not to do it. Or you learn to like it. It is definitely worth the “trouble”. It is then called “acquired taste” – not everyone likes beer or coffee at first taste, but then it can develop into a passion. Licking pussy can of course be an extremely pleasant and delightful experience the first time – and it can of course develop into a far deeper passion than ever coffee or beer

Devotion

Make it very clear to the woman in question that you really ENJOY licking her – by showing your desire and greed openly, by talking about how much you love licking her, through lustful sounds – and it will be enjoyable for her in many ways. Then she can get over any concerns about you getting tired, having a sore neck, that it takes too long, that it will be boring for you, etc., etc. It may sound incredible, but many women actually think that way.

I personally love licking my woman's pussy. Kissing her dripping vagina is a HUGE pleasure for me. I am almost obsessed with licking her, and can be completely sexually satisfied by licking her to an orgasm.

She has the most beautiful pussy I have ever seen. Plus, it tastes so, so good. If I had to choose ONE sexual activity to devote myself to for the rest of my life, it would be this art – cunnilingus. Fortunately, I don't have to make this one-sided choice, but as I said…

A man can get his greatest pleasure, and long, pulsating, thunderous ecstatic orgasms, with the help of his partner's mouth, tongue and hands. This also applies to women. You can help her have strong, wonderful orgasms with just her mouth as the only tool. Or for that matter, even with fingers and other body contact. In other words, the pleasure is then completely mutual.

If you want to ensure that you will maintain a long-term relationship with a wonderful woman you love, and that she will love having sex with you – lick her pussy to orgasm. Preferably often. It is addictive. She will not need anyone else – she will only want you. Unless you have other agreements, of course…

Technique

So, how do you lick for the best effect? ​​The answer is greedy and devoted, but soft and sensitive. Avoid using your teeth – unless the woman you are licking experiences a particularly delightful pleasure from being bitten on the labia. You should explore the woman's genitals carefully, at least occasionally, preferably in good lighting, lick, caress, try – and don't forget to ask what feels best. Good communication – both verbal and physical – is often the secret to a developed and enjoyable sex life.

Of course, it is possible to read a woman's reactions to your treatment in ways other than verbal. If you have your head wedged between her thighs, and your mouth buried in her womb, it may not always be so easy to talk. But you can see, hear and feel clear signs that you are on the right track.

If she starts breathing more intensely, maybe moaning or whimpering, if her vagina is dripping with juice, swelling up and opening up to you, if she pushes her pelvis up towards your face – then you are probably doing the right thing. Heated breathing, flushed skin, hands grabbing the sheets – or your head to hold you down and push you harder between her legs – are very sure signs that you are doing the right thing.

Foreplay or bang on the beetroot?

Usually a woman does not want stimulation on the vagina immediately – you should start with a lot of caresses, licking and kissing everywhere except directly on the genitals. Turn her on slowly. Use your whole body. Caress her with your whole face, your stomach, your arms, hands, thighs, calves, feet – everything can be caressed with. Being caressed all over the body at the same time can be an incredibly dizzying experience. Lick, nibble and caress closer and closer to the vagina, preferably a little teasing and arousing – make her expectant.

Stimulate her clitoral glans. If you are new to each other – go on a journey of discovery in her genitals. Find her clitoral glans. It can look very different on different women, and it can be different sizes, different amounts of hidden.

If you stimulate with the tip of your tongue directly on the clitoral glans – do it extremely softly and gently.

The clitoral glans is incredibly sensitive (8,000 nerve endings – compared to 4,000 on a man's penis), and rough handling is not pleasant at all for most women – just painful. Keep in mind that the clitoris is usually at least twice as sensitive as the man's glans. But a soft and wet tongue is usually always welcome.

If she is already really excited and horny, the best thing to do is just dive down between her legs and take it voraciously. Intensely, passionately, with soul and heart. If she is extremely horny herself, this may be the best strategy – at least that's my experience.

From day to day…

Remember that there is not just one way that is right. And – what was right yesterday may not be right today. What worked yesterday may not work today. On the other hand, what did NOT work yesterday may lead to pure ecstasy today. Sexuality is not static. Sometimes it can be raw and brutal sex that leads to climax, and the next day it can be a feather-light tongue on the clitoris. Again – communication and variety.

variation

It can be very arousing to change direction, play with breathing, change speed, press with the tongue, etc. Let your whole head follow her movements. Lick sideways, vertically, all around, randomly. Lick with a pointed tongue, a wide tongue, quickly, slowly, or suck the whole mouse into your mouth and play with your tongue. You can even nibble or bite the labia – with great caution, and preferably with some form of non-verbal communication that is easy to understand. Licking in just one way without variation can become boring for both partners in the long run. But don't vary too much either – change the movement, and stay in that movement for a while – then move on. Dare to experiment. Play! Have fun in bed!

Continuity

Paradoxically, sometimes the opposite of variety can be needed. The balance between continuity and variety is what characterizes a particularly skilled pussy licker. The fine alternation between recognition and surprise can be what makes lovemaking especially delightful. When she is in the build-up phase to a real orgasm, a regular, determined licking rhythm can be the secret. If you find a good movement that gives a strong effect – keep doing it. The trick, as they say, is knowing when. But it comes with time – practice makes perfect.

Like an ice cream

Lick her as if she were an ice cream. Long, wide, pleasurable tongue swipes – preferably all over her vulva, so you stimulate all the nerve endings in the area around the genitals. Make her feel like you are really enjoying her, like a yummy dessert. Feel free to make pleasurable sounds too. Hum and sigh with pure pleasure – it makes her feel appreciated, tasty, attractive and wonderful!

Be devoted!

Using your whole face can be exciting. Dive into your lover's womb, bathe in it. Aim for your whole face to be sticky and moist with her pussy juice. Tongue-fuck her deep in the vagina, while stimulating her clitoral glans with your nose. Let there be no doubt that you love licking her.

 

Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck her entire vulva into your mouth. Suck in and lick all over her labia at the same time. Let her feel like you are sucking her whole into you, that you are eating her up. This works best if she's shaved, of course, because then you can create that sucking vacuum feeling. Here it's extra important that you're sensitive to her experience, so that you don't suck too hard, so that it hurts.

Stimulate the G-spot

To really enhance the effect, you can insert two fingers into the vagina and look for the G-spot. This place is usually called the “G-spot”, but it should actually be called the G-spot, or the G-spot, because it is more of a small spot than a dot. This is a mistranslation. Spot means spot, not point, and therefore G-spot should be translated as G-spot, rather than G-spot. It is not just semantics – anatomically, “spot” is a much better description than “point”, because a point is really very centered, while a spot is over a slightly larger area – which it is.

If you don’t know where the G-spot is, it is really time for you to find out. Make it a joint project to find her G-spot – she may not know it herself! It is usually located at the level of the clitoris, facing forward.

 This means that for some women the G-spot is located close to the vaginal opening, and for some women further in. Hook your fingers from inside her vagina, and look for a lumpy or grooved area – it may feel a bit like a soft peach pit.

Massage there – sometimes hard, sometimes soft. Ask how it feels, find the right stimulus. If she is new to it, paradoxically it may feel uncomfortable at first, but incredibly pleasant after getting used to it.

This is a whole science that would really need its own article – but in short it can be said that the G-spot is a place that often needs to be “awakened”, that it can take some time to actually arrive at the enormous pleasure that the G-spot can offer. At first it may feel rather prickly and pee-worthy, and a little uncomfortable. You can get over the urge to pee by peeing right before – then you know that if you feel the urge to pee when you press, you have ended up in the right place. Then you can sometimes massage gently, sometimes just apply just the right amount of pressure.

 

Over time, the pleasure will take over completely, while the urge to pee and the tingling will slowly disappear completely. However, it is usually important not to press the G-spot too early - the woman should be warmed up, wet and welcoming before you start stimulating the G-spot.

Let her ride your face

If she doesn't want to just be passively receptive, you can lie on your back and let her take command – preferably with some cheeky calls, or maybe even a bit of a dominant style?

You can of course start with a 69 (or Yin-Yang, as you can also call it), and see what it can lead to. If it works for both of you, 69 is a fun way to give each other pleasure at the same time. On the other hand, it can be nicer to concentrate on giving or receiving – one thing at a time, so to speak. It's a matter of taste, like everything else. Or you can let her tie you up hand and foot, and then all you have to do is submit, and lick on command…

Playing with roles and attitudes

 

Good sex is not primarily about technique – and not just about feelings either. It is primarily about attitude, and an effective way to change your attitude to become more open and sex-positive, can be to play more, maybe fool around with roles – what role do you have towards your woman's pussy today? Are you a priest in a love cult, submitting to the Holy Pussy Altar? Or do you control her completely with your tongue? Or are you a sex educator who will help an unknown woman to her first orgasm? Are you shamans performing a sacred sex rite to heal the earth? Doctor and patient? Your attitudes and roles can enhance sex play more than you might think

Prolonging and intensifying orgasm

You can intensify an orgasm incredibly, and prolong it even more, if you continue licking once the orgasm has started. But then you usually have to lick more softly. Just as a man's glans becomes much more sensitive during and just after orgasm, a woman's clitoris and the rest of her genitals often become much more sensitive to touch at that time.

But if you can sense when orgasm is coming, and then adjust your licking to a much softer, slower stimulation, you can achieve truly miraculous orgasms. You can also drag it out by stopping licking when you feel her close - it can be unbearable for some, but fantastic for others. Responsiveness and sensitivity are the rule. Well worth at least a try, right?

Intimate hygiene and shaving

A woman who wants to be licked, but has a hesitant partner, can do a lot to make it more attractive for her partner to lick her – such as through good hygiene, intimate shaving and much more. Keeping clean can be important.

In my article about the art of sucking cock, I point out the benefits of making it a habit to wash your cock after doing your business in the toilet, because for many people it then feels more attractive and fresh to both offer and perform oral sex.

This of course also applies to women. If I know that my woman is fairly fresh between her legs, I can more easily “impulse lick”, and give her a little pleasure at any time. It is worth mentioning that this is of course also a matter of taste and preference. Some people want it to smell and taste like sex, and do not want it to be too freshly washed. Again, a matter of communication.

Many people think that shaved sex is the best thing for sex – you have better access and much better contact with the sensitive skin surrounding the genitals. All women who have ever tried to be licked with shaved labia can testify to the sensation it provides. And you don’t get “hair in your food” – it can be incredibly annoying to get a hair stuck in your palate…

But – shaved or not is of course ultimately a matter of taste. Many men (or women who are attracted to women) want hair around the vulva – so talk to your partner. Find out what your partner prefers, feel what you want yourself, and find the best possible solution. Also – hair grows out. Shaving is not a permanent change.

Read more about intimate shaving in a special article on this topic »

Fantasy-inducing availability

Something that can often be very arousing in itself is that the partner you have is almost always sexually available. I can feel safe in showing my desire openly to my partner, without risking being rejected. We can play with this. An important thing to remember with sex is that you don't always have to "go all the way", with penetration, mutual orgasms, etc. It can be enough with an arousing lick, to enter a little, a caress, a hug.

If you like being licked, and have a partner who likes to lick, it of course also gives a new dimension to the phenomenon of wearing a skirt or dress without panties underneath.

Then your partner can access a little at any time, and that's always exciting...

If she doesn't want to

Some women don't want their pussies licked – and some men don't want their cocks sucked. There can be a variety of reasons for this, but the most common are that you don't feel attractive, that you think it will smell strange, that your partner "really" does it reluctantly, or that you don't want penetrative sex, and believe that all sexual expressions must inevitably always lead to it. That's why I don't like the word "foreplay", because it suggests that kissing, caressing and licking are just a means to intercourse, which can make you say no to nice sensual touch, because you don't feel like fucking at that moment.

These reasons are usually just mental ghosts, which you can gently and kindly deal with. In my own case, my wife didn't think she liked being licked – she had never experienced that any of the young men who tried were particularly interested, or they were sloppy. But she never had time to protest, the first time we had sex.

I saw her extremely beautiful pussy, fell in love at first sight, and just dived down between her legs. Before she could protest, she realized that it was actually very, very nice. Since then, she loves it, and just wants more, and more, and more, to the great joy of both of us…

If the reluctance is particularly strong, it may be due to one of the following reasons:

It is directly physically unpleasant

This can be due to a number of different reasons. It may be a physical defect, or that you are so stuck in old shame for your own body, that you do not believe yourself to be attractive – or that it evokes strongly traumatic memories of previous abuse – or simply because the person performing oral sex is doing it wrong.

It does not feel good purely emotionally

This can also be caused by bad experiences, but above all it is about self-image. If you think you smell bad – let your partner decide that, not you. Your partner probably thinks you both smell and taste absolutely wonderful – otherwise he/she wouldn't stay down there, right?

Be patient, give her time

Many women are not used to orgasms, if they have ever had one, and they also still carry the weight of a sexist and misogynistic society hanging on their pelvis, largely created by Christian shame and guilt.

Therefore, you often need to give women more time, more space to land in just giving in to pleasure.

Let her feel that you can stay down there as long as you want, that it is permissible for her to just receive.

For many women who have had a very difficult time giving in and enjoying sex, this patience can be the redeeming factor that makes her let go of her control.

Give her all the time in the world – I promise, it will pay off in the long run. Her gratitude will be boundless, and she will give you lots of heavenly pleasure in return…

Samuel QU

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